"When we fall in love, even in a broken and sinful world, we sense a deep truth. Contrary to popular opinion, love is not blind. When we love another person, we see the other as they truly are. We see the dizzying depths that lie within this other person. Intuitively – not often articulated, but intuitively – we are drawn to the potential infinity that is within this other person. That is why we have a belief that the one we fall in love with is enough for us. "You are all I need," says the lover to the beloved, and that is true.
The experience of love reveals how, in each person, there lies within them – and I will submit you now a word, dense with meaning, from a theologian… from the words of St. Simeon the new theologian… there is within each person the reason of things and the nature and the knowledge of beings within themselves, but this experience of the reason of things, that the other is infinitely great and there is depth in them that summarizes all that is created by God.
The unfathomable depth of this mystery that the other is, and that love opens us up to see in another, can also become the place of the greatest suffering in our life. The other – for the other, like us, is greater than heaven, yet, as the fathers remind us, it is even easier to understand heaven than ourselves. When love in this world is not lived in God, then sin will distort it. For rather than receiving the loved one as the image of God, we will force the other to become in our own image, to possess, to control, and to use.
The experience of love reveals how, in each person, there lies within them – and I will submit you now a word, dense with meaning, from a theologian… from the words of St. Simeon the new theologian… there is within each person the reason of things and the nature and the knowledge of beings within themselves, but this experience of the reason of things, that the other is infinitely great and there is depth in them that summarizes all that is created by God.
The unfathomable depth of this mystery that the other is, and that love opens us up to see in another, can also become the place of the greatest suffering in our life. The other – for the other, like us, is greater than heaven, yet, as the fathers remind us, it is even easier to understand heaven than ourselves. When love in this world is not lived in God, then sin will distort it. For rather than receiving the loved one as the image of God, we will force the other to become in our own image, to possess, to control, and to use.








